This is an answer made this morning on Fessestivites to a submissive who was very embarrassed to admit it to me even through a private chat.
The femininity that lives in each man manifests itself differently depending on what he lives that he is feminized or not. The chastity cage increases tenfold the sensations, the needs and desires of contacts, caresses, touching. The absence of ejaculation is only a tiny part of the consequences of the sensations.
Indeed, the fact that the penis is blocked in a tube, compresses it at the slightest emotion. In addition, it pulls on the testicles. These two physical events are a form of involuntary self-touching.
In addition to this, there are many other things that I will briefly develop.
1. The fact that the cage reminds the man when he sits on a simple chair or in his car. (Physical reminder)
2. The fact that the cage reminds the man when he climbs stairs. (Physical reminder)
3. The fact that the cage reminds the man when he carries a load. (Physical reminder)
4. The fact that the cage reminds the man when he scratches himself. (Physical reminder)
5. The fact that the cage reminds the man when it is in the way and that he puts it back in his underwear properly. (Physical reminder)
6. The fact that the cage reminds the man when he is showering. (Physical reminder)
These physical reminders are regular and therefore permanent in situations where he would not normally think about his sex. The fact of having to sit down to urinate is an umpteenth reminder, to sit like a woman completes the panoply of the reminders.
At night, he undergoes the effects of nocturnal erections without wanting it and without any solicitation.
To all this, frustration is added, and there, to compensate for it, the man under chastity cage naturally starts to look for diverted sensations. He caresses his breasts for example. As time goes by, his physical needs increase, he starts to feel like playing with his anus, or with pain, pain in the sense of pain/pleasure.
The permanent physical reminders + the frustration + the sensations of the diverted pleasures, (caress/breast/anus) increase tenfold the sensitivity of his epidermis. His mind reacts by asking for more. If the idea of a feminization constraint has already crossed the mind of the submissive, he starts by buying or finding a feminine garment (stockings / tights / dress / women's panties) AND THE his mind will ask again and again for more. As long as he has taken pleasure with an anal object, the man projects himself in the body of a penetrated woman to fantasize and have fun, or, of a man undergoing a Mistress forcing him to feminize himself to humiliate him.
STOP I don't say that all men under chastity cage need to feminize themselves !!!!!
In their search for devious sensations, some do selfbonding, some do CBT, some do ABDL and play with diapers, some do ..... and there is nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with enjoying yourself at all!
Let's get back to the need to feminize to address the discomfort it can cause.
It's not because you've feminized that you're gay or bi, you didn't want to do something you were right to do it if you enjoyed it. All this to say that many people, under a cage of chastity, have felt like playing around with feminization.
It is obvious that after the pleasure, one can be embarrassed and ashamed of oneself. This is a mistake, where there is embarrassment, the pleasure flies away. If one has enjoyed feminizing oneself, why be ashamed of having enjoyed oneself?
This is an answer made this morning on Fessestivites to a submissive who was very embarrassed to admit it to me even through a private chat. There is no shame in pleasing yourself and this phenomenon has a logic as developed above!