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Chastity can be difficult when you don't have a partner to engage with - but just because you don't have anyone else doesn't mean you can't have fun in chastity. Below is a list of chastity games you can play alone to get your own release and satisfaction at times. Basically, this is a reward system that you would normally get with a key holder, but in this case, you are rewarding yourself. The point is that you can still enjoy the chastity game before you even involve anyone else, and this could be a precursor to seeing if you actually enjoy the chastity game without the embarrassment of having to ask someone else. In solo, you need to be honest with yourself and be your own key holder, it won't work if you are not committed to this type of game. Before you commit to extended periods of confinement, you need to make sure that your brand new chastity cage works and fits well.
Start by wearing it for short periods of time and carrying the key. If at any time you feel discomfort, pain or anything else, remove the device immediately and try to determine the cause of the discomfort. If it was simply in the wrong position, reposition it and put it back in. But if the problem is severe, such as the band being too small or the brace being too large, you will need to stop using it and get a new brace or new parts for the brace. You will also need to start sleep training with the device to make sure that it is a good fit for your sleep. This process may take a few days or even weeks until you are completely comfortable and happy with the device and feel comfortable leaving the key at home.
Start with small trips, like a shopping trip, a friend for lunch, etc. and leave the key at home. You will still have access to it, but not immediately. This way you can prepare to wear the chastity device full time. Depending on your level of commitment, you could start by replicating a standard keyholder relationship by establishing a contact that will set the duration of your chastity, establishing a list of sanctions, etc. If you are only doing this for a few days, you might consider the idea of mailing the key to yourself, either from a nearby city or a similar city. This will give you a taste of chastity, whether you want it or not.
By making a list of penalties, you could also be held to the contract - playing solo, it's up to you how far you want to go. We've put together a short list of sanctions that you could use - with appropriate extensions based on the length of your detention. If you only have a few days, you can extend the sentence by a few hours or days, but it's not really possible to extend it by weeks or months. Conversely, if you lock yourself up for weeks or months, the penalties should not be hours or days
Suggested sanctions for male chastity
Not wearing your cage at all times:
Touching yourself while in the cage:
Orgasm while locked:
Failing to pleasure someone else to the best of one's ability while caged:
Failure to complete contracted tasks:
Once you've addressed all of the above, including what to do with escape keys, you can begin your chastity fantasy by indulging in some games! A great way to create a safe, emergency spare key is to drop the key into a plastic water bottle and freeze it. You'll be limited in what you can access and how quickly you can access your key. It will still be there in an emergency, but it won't be immediate.
Chastity in the gym:
Chastity in the gym
Going to the gym can be difficult. Why not motivate yourself by using chastity as a personal trainer? You can ask a friend to put the key in a locker, and they will give you the combination after your workout, or simply ask them to keep a set of keys (with chastity on it) for a short period of time. If you are successful in training, you will have access to the key again. If not...you will remain locked in.